Wednesday, June 3, 2009

Hunter update. ......

Well, so I know that Itold you all previously that Hunter was Back with Sterling and Amanda (his dad and step mom) and that he was safe and sound. Well That sounds all so wonderful, and too good to be true.

Yesterday morning seemed to start out fine for my friends and her family. At breakfast, Maddie (5) was telling Hunter that Uncle Kelly, Aunt Chrissy and little Manda were coming to see them this weekend (that us by the way .... little Manda is what they call my daughter Amanda, well that or An Tamanda LOL) . And the n she tells him that now that Little Manda brings her own car up, she always takes them someplace fun. Sometimes she take them to Incredible Pizza, sometimes to the movies, but she always tries to take the little ones somewhere. Hunter was so excited! Its the first time he has seen Manda since she got her car, and he asked his mom .. really???? do you think she will take us somewhere this weekend? And Amanda said "I'm sure she will Hunter". Then Hunter asked if they could go eat lunch at Golden Corral ..... his new favorite place to eat. So later that say, Sterling, Amanda, Hunter and Maddie are walking out of the house to go to Golden Corral. Sterling looks up and says, "oh great, theres you mom" to Hunter. Ashley came with the Sheriff Dept.

They were there to pick Hunter up. According to the divorce decree, Sterling can pick him up when school lets out and can have him all summer. Well since Ashley had the paperwork showing he was still supposed to be in her ucstody, the Sheriff had no choice but to let her take Hunter. Now mind you , this whole time Hunter is crying and begging to not have to go with Ashley. When Hunter had no choice but to go with her, he came to Amanda(step mom) and hugged her, and then hugged his dad and made them promise that they would be there to pick him up on Saturday. That is when his dad is supposed to get him anyway.

So needless to say, the 4 of us, me, Kelly, Sterling and Amanda are getting in the car Saturday morning, and driving to Three Rivers, which is the arranged meeting place. If they are not there, we are driving to Crystal City, to try to get him. With us, we will have the report from the sheriff (who said he was making a very detailed report, the crying, the begging, even the part where he told her she had better have him at the meeting place, or that he would file kidnapping charges on her), and the paperwork from the attorney.

I am going to end this blog by saying, I am hoping that Ashley does the right thing. That she meets us the way she is supposed to. That she sends Hunter over to our car unharmed in anyway. And we can take him back to a place where he is safe. If not, and we have to get the police involved, or if she runs with him, this has the potential to get really ugly. I guess I will let you know on Saturday. If theres not a blog from me by Tuesday ..... it means I am still in jail! Start saving your change for my bail!

5 comments:

  1. I would be totally upset and devastated at the same time. He needs to get on the ball with that paperwork and get back into court asap. I will be praying for this little boy. I can feel his pain and his heart is hurting. You love them very much I can tell. They don't just make friends like you anymore. You're one of a kind and I love you!!! Keep us updated.

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  2. I agree with Amethsyt. He needs to get whatever papers he needs and get full custody of Hunter. I am praying for Hunter and for all of you. It isn't fair this child has to be put through this. His mom needs to be hog tied and beaten. And if you go to jail I will have a cake ready to bring to you with a file inside it. :) Love you Sweetie!!!!

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  3. I am hoping it all goes well and if you end up in jail I would be sad if my buffy was in jail :(

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  4. OMG that is terrible for Hunter! I hope for his sake Sterling gets all the paperwork needed to file for full custody. If you are in jail, let me know and i'll join ya! hahaha

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  5. I love my sister and friends .......... they are the awesomest! Todd (the lawyer)has already drawn up all the parers, and will be taking them too Sterling so that he once again have full custody, and Ashley to only be allowed supervised visits!

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